Assuming the Date
Tips to getting that First date
So, after you have been talking to a girl for a little bit and things seem to be going well. it can be time to try to ask her out on that first date. For some guys this is easy,
For other guys asking the girl out on that first date can be the hardest part of the whole endeavor.
For both types of guys there is a tactic that guys can learn a lot from that will give them an advantage in asking the girl on the first date.
It is a sales tactic called, “assuming the sale”.
In the dating world Assuming the Date works like this: When you are ready to ask the girl on the date you never really ask. You just tell her strait out in a very confident manner. Something like this,
“I totally loved this talk we had. Lets go out this weekend. Is Friday night or Saturday night better for you” The next important part is to not equivocate or undercut yourself. It is important to be confident here. When you ask her the question, look her in the eye and do not say anything until you get a response.
If she says no, accept it and move on. Be a man. You never know, sometimes a “no” right now can turn into a yes later on if you show a little class and take a, “no” well.
If you have read her signals right, projected the correct air of confidence and “assumed the date” the right way chances are she will gladly join you for that date.
Asking like that is a subtle difference but it can be an important one. You assume a superior, “bargaining position”.
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